Oct 11, 2009

Ugh ugh ugh.

I don't think I'll ever be able to be in a relationship with someone without ending up liking someone else... Is there something wrong with me?

I started thinking about crushes, likes, loves and whatever this week. I realized that I could see myself liking/dating almost any of my guy friends. And I was thinking about arranged marriages too, and how it seems like people who have arranged marriages end up falling in love and being happy a lot of the time. I mean, they're at least into each other enough to make babies, ya? So... my thinking here is that really all you need is a friendship and the rest will follow if you let it. It's all about availability and timing, for the most part. I feel like I could go anywhere and find someone who I'd be willing to date and eventually marry.

It's a little less simple than that, of course. Like, I don't want to marry someone who hates music or is mean to me or something like that... but if that's all it takes, then I could honestly see myself marrying any guy who is just a friend to me.

If you're a guy and you're my friend, don't worry, it doesn't mean I have a crush on you. I just think it wouldn't be completely absurd for us to date or get married, probably.


  1. Normally the woman has children because they believe it's their duty, not because of love.

    But I'm sure some of them it's love. =)

    I have a friend of mine that I wouldn't mind dating either, but I know in my heart all I really want them to be is a close friend.

    And that, is what makes the relationship truly special.

  2. Well I mean I would not want to go through the act of making children without at least somewhat liking the dude, yaknow? But yeah, I can see how that would be the case a lot of the time.

    Hum. Maybe I have no truly special relationships... haha... Nah, I'm just dramatic.

  3. logan... I'm not sure where it fits in, or if it's even... I don't know. I guess I'm starting to think it just comes along once you let it.